I used to live my life according to how the world told me to.
I married the good guy. I climbed the corporate ladder at one of the most prominent tech companies. I ate well. I worked out consistently. According to my loved ones I was a great partner, friend, daughter, sister, and co-worker.
And yet, I was miserable.
It took getting a divorce at 26 to finally shake me awake. Who was I? What did I want? How could it be possible that I had the dream life according to everyone else and feel so unfulfilled?
I wanted to tap into the highest version of myself.
The version of myself who would be brave enough to say what I really wanted, carve the path to get there, and say hell no to settling on my best life.
The version of myself who would be my own best friend, take time to celebrate my successes big or small, and unapologetically shine in the world.
The version of myself who would take ownership for my own life, release the parts of my past that kept me small, and not let fear keep me from becoming the person I knew I was meant to be.
So, I got to work.
I took ownership of my own life.
I went to therapy twice a week, every week. I grieved. I cried. I laughed so hard it felt like my chest was going to explode. I reclaimed my passions. I learned to say “no” to things that no longer served me. I gave myself permission to release my past. I began to celebrate myself. I got my Life Coaching certification. I opened a business. I wrote a book that became an Amazon best-seller. I fell in love.
Today, I wake up and ask myself every morning, “How are you feeling today?” I know what I want, how to get there, and don’t settle for less. I take ownership for my whole life, release the parts of my past that don’t serve me, and run my fears. I’m my own best friend, I celebrate my successes, and I shine without sorry.
Good enough wasn’t good enough for me —
I wanted magnificent.
I traded my “good enough” life for my best life, and I’ve been thriving ever since.
To help women show up in the world as their best self and get after their life without compromise.
I pay attention to and love myself.
I spend quality time with my husband, family, and friends. I run a badass business that I’m passionate about.
If you’ve ever met me, you know I’m bringing the realest of vibes when I say I am confident I’m living my best life deep down to my soul.
When people tell me you can’t have it all, I call bullshit.
My dream for you is for you to be living your best life by way of blowing your own mind.
I want you to prove yourself wrong about what you’re capable and deserving of. I want you to speak truth to what your soul really desires. I want you to love yourself — all of yourself.
In my dream, you’ll wake up one day and realize you have manifested your dream life. Not through quick-fixes, but through intentionality, determination, hard-work, consistency and dedication. You will be getting real with yourself, blasting your brilliance, and putting the bullshit to bed.
You will be living with Soul Confidence.